This Is For The Lovers

For all my in the world...or at least the ones that will know what the hell I'm talking about...Happy Sweetest Day! Today, I'm not gonna really blog because I'm too busy spending time with my Boo.

We had our gift exchange...I got a really sweet purple (my favorite color) blanket with pink hearts and singing monkeys on it and it was all wrapped up in it's very own monkey with Velcro strap hands as well as a card that read "There's no one I rather make people sick with than you" (we have a few haters...is that still a word?)...I made him a gift basket filled with his favorite things...Black & Milds, Swisher Sweets, lighters and M & Ms....

Now it's time to put the kids to bed and enjoy the rest of the night together...

Peace LOVE & Soul...

Song of the Night - If This World Were Mine by Luther Vandross & Cheryl Lynn

2008 Terms of Endearment

Ladies...Ladies...Ladies...I don't know where we came up slipping, or which rapper made us feel like this shit was acceptable, but nowadays we answer to shit like this:

That's my bitch. That's my hoe. She a down ass bitch. She's my freak. Bust it Baby. My piece.

You know what I'm getting at. I let my dude label my picture on his old MySpace page "My new bitch." I actually thought the shit was cute for a minute...But once reality soaked in I thought to myself...In the heat of an argument, him calling me a bitch won't be so cute. I'll be ready to cut his ass when all along he's only calling me something that I've allowed him to call me since the beginning...So what I guess I'm saying is...If we don't respect ourselves...why in the hell should they?



Recommended listening:



I Love My Bitch - Busta Rhymes feat./ Will.I.Am & Kelis
Me and My Bitch (Live) - Notorious B.I.G.
Bust It Baby - Plies
Bust It Baby Pt. 2 - Plies feat./ Ne-Yo
Down Ass Bitch - Ja Rule
Down 4 U - Ja Rule, Ashanti, Charli Baltimore & Vita

My Computer VS. Big Daddy

Sometimes I think I spend more time on my computer than I do quality time with my man. It's the technology that's to blame. When I first started out on CollegeClub.com and BlackPlanet.com I was mediocre at HTML. But now things are so easy, I don't have to memorize all those codes. It's nothing for me to make my photo my background, or put all my favorite music on my page. Now even when I'm working or doing research, it seems as if I'm being a computer whore. I just can't help it. At least he's my number one friend on MySpace!

Golden Gems

Has anyone ever said some shit so crazy to you that you wanted to quote them every chance you get? In a recent argument with my sister, one which will permanently fray our relationship, she said some things to me that I will remember for the rest of my life. Here are a few of her golden gems:

"You love other kids more than you love your own."

"When that nigga dogs you, and he will dog you, don't call me."

"Why would you let his father see him, he doesn't even love him."

"You always dog your family for your friends and your boyfriends."

"Somebody's going to call CSB on you."

Now, where I'm from all that was said would be considered fighting words, but at 27, I refuse to fight my younger sister. But she has started a war and the gloves are most definitely off...